Monday, July 26, 2010

Creating Family Culture,..

What's your family culture? 
Alhamdulillah i've been raised well by my parents. Providing knowledge instead of rules, roles, habits, activities and etc. My dad was a strict dad. I do remember the times when we've being 'rotan' because of our behaviour and not listening to them! Whilst my mum i consider not so strict but still not defending us if my dad was on the rules.. there was no place to hide! hahaha those were the days, every families have their own way / culture. Creating family culture is very important in a way to build character and personality of each family members especially our children. I prefer it's been created since the first day being husband and wife. Why? It's the time to create and developing a good habit, rules and roles of the small family before its growing. Alhamdulillah, i used to an early breakfast same does to my laling, therefore it's rare for us wake up late in the morning, usually by 730am i'm already in the kitchen preparing breakfast or doing the washing.. I found that the earlier we wake up the more productive day we have! There was 1 day we woke up at 10am, dizziness and laziness attacking us the whole day, i conclude it as UNPRODUCTIVE day! In Islam also teach us not to waste time and use it wisely. Orang tua pon cakap jangan tidur lepas subuh nanti rezki lari. Semenjak ada Ziyaad Ilhaam, weekend seem flies soooooooo fast! Pulak tuh masih perlu kerja di SITE on Saturday! Only on weekend ouh i mean Sunday i can rest from work! but then i still need to work at home, THE HOUSECHORES,.. No matter how tired i am, the breakfast need to be ready early, sometimes my laling compromising it when the night before Ziyaad Ilhaam slept late,.. when you have been used to an early wake up no matter how late u sleep it's hard to wake up late, me tak suke sebab rase otak jadi ngengong!!! lepas tuh nanti mood my laling pon tak elok,.. Ouh dulu mase kecik kecik memang akan kene rotan kalau bangun lambat, TAKUT dengan rotan kene la bangun awal, even malam tuh tidur lambat sebab study! eh,.. me memang tak tidur lambat, i preferred sleep early and wake up early to study, sebab masa tuh semua orang tidur and konon konon derang tuh tak study lebih la sebab me bangun dulu untuk study, hahaha study ke!?! what else we have been creating?? Hmm makan bersama-sama,.. my parents house memang makan bersama-sama, coz that the only time to chat or discuss together among us! time tuh la nak cerita pasal the day we've gone thru, and time tuh juga la nak mintak ape-ape,.. until now we still had lunch or dinner with big family at least once a week whenever my dad was not on business (he is always on business, thank you dad, because of you we live better each day =)) and at our little family, even Ziyaad Ilhaam need to be entertained, we managed to! Alhamdulillah,... Solat berjemaah? i hope i can berjemaah semula with my laling,.. nowadays susah nak berjemaah bersama unless at my parents house! Ouh dulu mase kecik kecik solat maghrib memang wajib berjemaah if my dad ada kat rumah,.. baru-baru ni mase solat berjemaah kat rumah my parents, Ziyaad Ilhaam behave well! hohoho me likey,.. today pulak nisfu syaaban, as usual if my dad was around solat jemaah and yassin was done! how's Ziyaad Ilhaam,..? he is my little good boy, i pray you will always do,.. 




psst... on the way back from work today i had a short discussion conversation with my laling regarding family culture, insyaallah we gonna be strong in order to build or create a gud family culture for our little family,.. i do found it's important for us as we want to produce a good khalifah, insyaAllah,...

3 comments:

Zy Alyas said...

cibo...dh blh prepare utk tmbh sorg lg tuh....

||kiena|| said...

kak zie: uh,... next yer bru nak pikir tambah lgi,.. tahun ni allocation tuk sorang nih aje,.. lepas pindah rumah buleh laaa tahun depan! eh, kak zie kene lepas dulu, sian kasyful tuh,... nak kawan! =P

Zy Alyas said...

hehehe...btl2..jarak antra anak plg krg 2thn..next year sedang elok la tue...insya-allah,next year ada la kwn kasyful tuh...