Live, Life & Learn #3

Selalu benar kita cakap or dengar orang cakap "Nak buat macamana, dah takde pilihan, memang kena macam itu lah" regardless what's the matter, still gives the same mean. Tapi bila kita banyak membaca, Ya Allah, memang dari awal lagi kita sudah membuat pilihan. Seperti mencari pasangan hidup, bagaimana kita mahu anak kita dibesarkan. Semua itu ditentukan oleh kita sendiri. Terutama bagi lelaki.

"Hak yang pertama untuk anak adalah dipilihkan baginya seorang ibu sebelum dia dilahirkan; yang cantik, mulia, taat beragama, terhormat, cerdas, berakhlak terpuji, teruji kecerdasannya dan kepatuhannya kepada suami" - Saidina Umar al-Khatab radhiyalluhu'anhu

Sebelum berkahwin lagi suami telah membuat pilihan dengan siapa, dan anak yang bagaimana yang ingin dihasilkan. Maka setelah berkahwin, itu lah pilihan mereka. Begitu juga isteri. Memilih untuk bersama suami yang dikahwini dan melahirkan zuriat untuk suami dalam keadaan yang dipilih oleh suami.  

Sabda Rasulullah "Apabila seseorang meninggal dunia, terputuslah segala amalan melainkan 3 perkara : sedekah jariyah, ilmu yang bermanfaat dan anak soleh yang mendoakannya." - Riwayat Muslim dari Abu Hurairah r.a.

Jom kita pelihara keperibadian kita, sebab kita yang Akan menentukan Dan membentuk keperibadian anak-anak. Pupuklah keperibadian & contoh yang baik untuk anak-anak. Semoga kubur kita tidak sunyi dengan alunan ayat-ayat Al-Quran dari anak yang soleh serta mendoakan kesejahteraan kita kelak. 

Benar lah ungkapan 'Life is Choice'.

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Live, Life & Learn #2

I love to share, yet i have little to share. InsyaAllah kita buat rumusan saja dari ilmu yang diperolehi di Konvensyen Bidadari Dunia. 

1. Jika bercita-cita ingin menjadi bidadari syurga, harus menjadi bidadari dunia dahulu.

2. Jika kita hidup kerana tujuan hidup, insyaAllah keperluan hidup terlaksana.

3. We 1st make our habits, then the habits make us.

4. Hidup ini tak sempurna jika kehidupan kita belum dapat membantu kehidupan orang lain.

5. Yakin diri ini cantik dan indah, barulah terbina solehah.

MasyaAllah, tertusuk segala ayat ni di hati. Mampukah kita menjadi bidadari dunia, walhal masih banyak perkara perlu dibaiki, dipelajari dan dilaksanakan. 

Pernah tak kita fikir or bertanya diri kita sendiri untuk apa kita hidup di muka bumi Allah ini. Pasti ramai akan menjawab untuk menghambakan diri kepada Allah. Tapi bagaimana? Cukup kah hanya dengan Rukun Iman dan Rukun Islam? jika betul fahami rukun iman, percaya kepada Allah, mengapa masih berdolak dalik lagi dalam menurut segala perintah nya. Teringat slot Dr. Harlina, ayat Amal Makruf takkan lengkap dengan Nahi Mungkar. Tak boleh berdiri dengan sendirinya ayat Amal Makruf. Jadi jika kita hanya menunaikan solat tapi masih belum lengkap menutup aurat, maka belum lengkap lah rukun iman itu. MasyaAllah. Sungguh aku terkesan.  Sama juga beriman kepada Al-Quran. Dok pung pang pung pang baca. Setiap malam Jumaat tak pernah lepas dari tidak membaca Yassin tapi adakah kita membaca kerana tradisi dari keluarga? Atau ingin mendapat syafaat Allah. Astaghfirullah, meh kita sama-sama perbetulkan semula amalan dan niat kita. Pertama niat kita hidup sebagai Khalifah Allah. Fahami intipati Al-Quran. Hidup ini untuk mengindahkan muka bumi dengan keindahan Islam.

Bidadari Dunia. Ya, wanita tidak lari dari tugas mendidik anak-anak. Mampukah kita menerapkan Islam dalam anak-anak sedari kecil. InsyaAllah, boleh. Itulah keperluan menuntut ilmu. Perlu diajar dahulu anak-anak sayang kan Allah. *dari slot Pn. Jamilah* Bila anak-anak sayang Allah barulah anak-anak tahu mengapa perlu bersolat. *Ya Allah, kau permudahkan lah laluan ku* Sebelum mahu mendidik anak, ibu bapa perlu terdidik. Keperibadian anak-anak dibentuk dan dipengaruhi oleh keperibadian ibu bapa. Jadi ibu bapa, sebelum merubah anak-anak, kita sendiri perlu berubah. *jangan sampai kubur kita sunyi dari alunan ayat-ayat suci Al-Quran dari anak-anak. Nauzubillah.*

"Sebaik-baik kamu adalah yang terbaik akhlaknya"

Subhanallah, let's renovate, renew our heart. Bayangkan rumah yang telah lama dihuni pastikan akan buruk juga akhirnya, maka marilah kita renovate semula supaya hati kita berseri dan indah semula dengan akhlak yang baik. Sesungguhnya menjadi Solehah itu Indah *dari slot Dr. Rubiah* jika kita menjaga hubungan dengan Allah dalam setiap saat. Indah juga bila berasa diri sangat dekat dengan Allah, dan sentiasa mencari keberkatan dalam kehidupan. Indahkan penampilan, pelihara keindahan batin.

When we say 'I LOVE Islam' we must commit. (niat, lafaz & perlakuan)

When we decided to change, positive vibes surround. To make it stay, always make a chance to feed our soul. Sama seperti batu permata, jika tidak selalu digilap pasti akan pudar. AllahuAkbar.

Pening Bila Tiba...

Source: Google

Yup,.. headache bile tibe 'Pay Day'! 

Next week nak settle my house loan pulak! 

Need to sign LI for monthly deduction from EPF contribution.

Hopefully it helps me a lot! 

Buleh dah rangka cashflow n budgetary baru.

Erks,.. need to save some more for the up coming baby on October this year...

Oh, hati bertabah lah.

Jom Sarapan!

...Oh, sudah masuk tengah hari! lambat sikit post ini =)

Today, we had homemade roti jala and kari sotong for breakfast! hah, rajin kan??? Mestilah sebab dah ade agenda untuk hari ni =) Kari sotong buleh bring forward lauk lunch! so tambah ikan selar goreng and cicah cencalok! slurp! sedap! memang dari semalam teringin sangat nak makan cencalok! tak sabar nak lunch nih! Ok, apakah agenda hari ni? After lunch me, Little Liam and Mak Ngah nak tempah baju untuk majlis bulan 3 nih,... 3 pasang OK! 2 pasang ade lining! bile ade lining mestilah 2 kali ganda, pastu ade beads lagi,.. hah, koman2 ade gak kene rm200++ sepasang untuk yg ade lining,.. sepasang lagi save budget, kain pun murah je so,.. save la sepasang,.. Nanti kan preview baju untuk majlis bulan 3 nanti,.. Dah ade baju, tudung plak takde! Hah, alasan!=P

Anyway, enjoy holiday peeps! And Salam Maulidurrasul =) (Tengah dok pikir cara2 nak didik anak mencintai Rasulullah nanti,.. Semoga kita semua berjaya mendidik anak2 kita, InsyaAllah...)

The Morning Supplement...

For a week every morning, i had 2 pils of Habbatus Sauda and ASI. (morning supplement je rajin =P) I found it works! yup my BM is increasing even-though in a small amount, it still help me to continue breastfeeding Little Liam and he's a year old now! Alhamdulillah,.. Thank you Allah for the gift! Here's the info of pils i'm having now,.. No harm to try mummies,.. 

Source: http://www.halagel.com/saudaoil.php?page=product 

Halagel® Habbatus Sauda Oil or Black Seed Oil

Halagel® Habbatus-Sauda formulated from Habbatus-sauda Oil extract. Habbatus- Sauda Oil is rich of unsaturated acid (EFA).

What Is Black Seed Oil?
Black Seed Oil or Habbatus-sauda is a medicinal herb which dates back its use to more than 3000 years. Black Seed Oil or Habbatus-sauda is also called as black cumin and botanically known as Nigella Sativa. Research on this seeds has proven that the cold pressed oil of this seed has valuable nutritional value as well as immune boosting properties.

The oil is obtained by cold pressing at very low temperature to maintain the chemical composition in this oil. No chemicals or catalysts are used in this process. The process is 100% natural. The oil is then double filtered to get pure oil of black seed. 

The Importance Of Halagel® Black Seed Oil

• Anti Histamine
• Anti Tumor
• Anti Bacteria
• Anti Inflammation
• Help improve milk production for breastfeeding mother.

Each Halagel® Softgel contains 500 mg Habbatus Sauda Oil. The outer shell of each Halagel® Softgel is made from Halagel® Gelatin certified Halal by JAKIM.

1/2 day on Friday!

... weeeeeeeeee! taking 1/2 day leave and North we gooooooooooo ...

ok, to be specific, we are going to Alor Setar for an event!

Yup, yup, yup! My brother is getting engage,.. tomorrow morning at Alor Janggus!

 Shawl | Amra 

 Dress | Forever21 

Pants | Niichi
Bracelet | Beetlebead

Shoe | Charles & Keith 

And i just had my cam-whore session while waiting the guys back from Friday prayer, I need to switched car, (dad's company car laaa, hah! a way to save your travel expenses! =))


Pssst.... i'd resize the resize the piccas, please mind the quality of those,.. =) 

2nd Day at Work on 2011

Ok, it's quite late to post about new year resolution! I dare not to table it here, as lots of 2010's to catch up... *sigh.. what a **ser! =( And i also not dare to post my appearance of 1st day working on 2011. It was sooooooooo 'serabut'.

So, today i dress properly.... =) not-so-fashionista as i still have to go here and there supervising site and material searching. As long as i feel better than yesterday! 

Lovies,... have a better year and May Allah Grant Us Joyous, Prosperous and Most Important of All, His Bless! Amiiin,.. 

The More I Read,..

... the more my tears fall down, and the more i want to hug and LOVE kiss to my dear son, Little Liam! Every time i read 'Doa Buat Alana' my heart and emotion turn down,.. A mother, a father, a brother who really missed Alana in every single moment,.. Ouh, the more phrases to read, the more i cry! Serious it was so touch! I dont have enough courage to read more (banyak skip okeh kalau baca each post...=( ), as the more i feel the burden of heart-broken-mother-who-lost-a-daughter..

PS. Hah lepas baca terasa sangat rindu pula kat my Little Liam,.. Post ini ditulis dikala tunggu meeting 8.30mlm, di site, sekarang dah jam 8.46mlm! Okeh lambat la lagi nak dapat peluk cium Liam..=(

I Wanna Dress Up Like Them!

... Recently,.. I feel like wanna dress up after almost 6 months i used to wear jeans and shirt to works! Biasalah site resident pakai macam tuh kan! Site uniform, buleh!?! But now is Hijab Fashion Week! If you are a blogger, u will update with this event! Hah, sangat adores okeh with the participants! Every day i will not miss to browse them! Update 12noon everyday! And i was like, if i can dress up too!! Being a BF mum, there's limitation in dressing, practical in nursing was the priority, yeah i know they have provided Baby Room / Nursing Room, but i used to public  nursing! Tak larat nak pusing-pusing and berjalan kalau the room tuh jauh nak kene menapak! 

Jom tgk diorang lagi! 

Hoh, want to share participants i most like:-

Bows and a Rose

adriani-a.blogspot.com

 

Geek In The Rainbow

geekintherainbow.blogspot.com

 

Jezmine Blossom

jezmineblossom.blogspot.com

Style N Scarves

styleandscarves.blogspot.com

Serious they look cool and fabulous with their style!! Salute y'all,..

 

PS. wanna hire personal fashion designer for BF mommies, anyone??

 

Capable of everything,..

i am not-so-capable! 

when you are a mother, a wife and a worker, time seems limited,.. 

Time flew sooooo fast and i need to be a superwomen,.. Limited time to do officework or even part time work at home (nite, after dinner and fetch little Liam at Grenma's) Little Liam like to be entertained and dont want to play on his own even in the same room (our little office at home) Work pending and also a headache to me as i cannot finish my work as targeted! (stress OK! how to get extra income ???)

Little Liam, please corporate with us, Ibu begging u please,.. =( 

Almost a week and i have to get things done in 2-3 days,.. Ya Allah, give us strength and bless our work, Lillahi ta'ala,..

I had these to ease the tense...

PS.Wondering if i can be superwomen, super in everything,..

He is now 9 months!

... sekejap je rase my little Liam has turned 9 months,... 

Looked at him this morning, yup, he is turning to be a big boy, ibu has to admit you will eventually like to be on your own, freedom! Thinking of it makes me feel sad, there will no more huggable nite like we always had... Hoh, ok ok stop being emotional me! U will be fine insyaAllah, my arms are wide open whenever you still need a comfort hug! Ibu suke kiss kiss and gigit gigit my little Liam, hahaha sebab nanti Liam da besar ibu da tak buleh gigit dah! (i will missing that too! sad sad sad =( ) 

9 months, u r still having my milk! Ibu soooooooooooooka,.. Alhamdulillah still giving him the best, walaupon ade hari2 yang down, ibu managed to get thru those. Liam also like to climb, he will climb on anybody who sitting near him so that he can stand and give a booty dance! hahaha tergoyang2 bontot nye, he also like to sing like me! Yeay, no i didnt go karaoke when pregnant, but i guess it runs in blood! hahahaha singing like a humming bird, oh yes i like to humming last time whenever i try to sleep o thinking on something!

PS. Piccas was taken using phone, sorry for the bad result! kekekeke anyhow my little Liam still cute and adorable! (ibu perasan sendri buleh!?!)

Proper design of surau for commercial building!

Dont you think we deserve a better surau at all commercial building, as Islam is the no.1 religion in Malaysia...?

Yes, Malaysia must upgrade their surau (muslim facilities) at commercial building! It's hard to find designated surau specially at shopping complex,.. often we found the surau was at Basement or back of the building,.. Like supposed it was store before! (macam tak pernah plot kat plan arkitek on their construction drawing! huh!) Should the architect nor interior must look into this matter during design stage,.. haih,.. malu juga ade bila pergi Melbourne (last 3 years), praying at soooooooooo much better surau than we had in Malaysia! It's Ok, there's always a room for improvement,.. Hmm, I could say that Pavillion, KL have a nice surau at level 5, may be we can provide more designated surau like that!(Still the location quite far inside!) Or we can have this! 

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After snap snap at Surau Nikko Hotel, we had our ... Hazelnut Latte and Apple Strudel! Yeay! Marvellous, the apple strudel is a MUST TRY if u stop by here! 

Thank you!

Plan, Strategise and Action

Haih,.. Busy'ness' week! and lots of thing in my head,..

Hoh, 

I need to PLAN

I need to STRATEGISE

And ACTION to be taken!

Am i capable for those?

I need handy assistant please,... 

 Above: One of the burden in my head! Haih DESIGN and CASHFLOW involved~

P.S Dear little family, am working hard to give everything,.. Everything for US, InsyaAllah.. May Allah Bless Us

Sempat kah???

 Ni lah macaron @ Shangri-La KL,.. huhuhu menarik kan!?! i looooike!!! hoh bila kecik size nye sangat comei & tak de la manis sangat! hehehe gambar ni diambil semasa berbuka disini,.. SEDAP! Me and family LOVE to dine here! (ouh,gambar diatas hiasan semata,..kekeke)

Haish,.. pagi tadi after sahur, terus buat bancuhan fruit cake untuk di bawa balik kg, sepatutnya buat lepas berbuka semalam, tapi lepas berbuka terus flat,.. tak larat sebab hari sebelumnya dah bekerja keras sampai jam 1 pagi buat cookies and tart nenas yang telah ditempah, lepas tuh pulak my dear son tak mo tido sampai la jam 2pagi baru la dia nak tido,.. si kecik ni memang kalu time malam dia hyper active,.. penat nak layan,.. malam tadi pon macam tuh! dah tido jam 9 malam, pastu kol 12 tengah malam berjaga sampai jam 4 pg! hoh, memang niat nak bangun jam 3 pagi tadi tuk buat kek and cookies tak kesampaian,.. ibu biarkan je ziyaad ilhaam main sorang2 sampai penat, dia bising baru la tengok,.. adeeeeeeh,.. Cookies bila pulak nak buat bila bekerja hari ni? hah, nampak nyer kene buat emergency plan lah (hehehe apakah??? biarlah rahsia!), memandangkan ibuku di rumah tetibe migrain, so takde sape buleh sambung keje2 cookies ku,.. hoh tahun nih sangat tak best penyiapan cookies ku,.. mungkin kene amik cuti sebulan berpuase, hahaha semata2 nak buat cookies n tart nenas bagai!!! best jugak ye kalu buat gini tahun depan,.. hmmm akan ku pikirkan,.. kekeke,..

Anyone, please help me,..

... i'm adjusting my layout to the new background,.. adeeeh sangat tak reti nak edit html! *dush*dush*dush*

ada sesiapa tak yang buleh tolong betulkan layout saya yang tak masuk kat background tuh,.. ?? it's actually maximise the white background to suite the arrangement... douh~

Changed to Visa Debit!

Yeay, today managed to change my Maybank ATM card to Maybank Visa Debit card,.. huhuhu last time mase Treats Fair tak sempat nak pi tukar sebab system dah off, yelah minta tuka jam 830mlm! Why i want to change my card badly? List down here the benefit of Maybank Visa Debit Card:- 

• Shop at over 29 mill Visa accepted outlets worldwide.
• Use it as your ATM card to withdraw cash locally and overseas.
• Earn 1 Treats Points for every RM3 spent and enjoy privileges when you shop.
• Set your own purchase limit up to RM5,000.
• No income requirement for application,no finance and late charges or annual fees.
• Use it to pay bills or transfer money.
• Peace of mind with smart chip security.
• Track your online transactions via Maybank2u.com

Actually the function is combination of ATM card + credit card BUT they deduct from our saving account! Please please please manage your expenses,.. (nasihat untuk diri sendiri juga ;-)) Suke sangat!!! Even no cash in my purse i still can pay my groceries at any supermarket! huhuhu yang penting buleh gune untuk SOOOPIN' kat SOGO!!! (erksss kes tak buleh gune ATM card as debit card hari tuh kat SOGO, tapi kat JUSCO buleh!?!)

PS. Maybank personnel yang entertain me tadi terkezuuut me dah kawen and ade anak, ingat baru lepasan UNIVERSITY! buleh gituh!?! hahahaha sukeeeeeeeeeee! Then dia tanya plak da buat ASB loan ke belum? Lucky me i 've done the loan! Dia balas kembali, jarang jupe budak muda sudah pandai buat saving, hehehe saya jawab kembali saya da guna kan dividen tuh anak saya, memang berbaloi-baloi! tak tipu!!! so sekarang my dear laling pulak buat loan ASB,.. hehehe sebab tahu simpanan ni sangat membantu!  

Word of thoughts,..

It's hard for us to judge personal character, sometimes it takes years to understand them,..

Personally i dont take years, how they think and act basically shows them, Mentality.. In example, do you treat an A's student same with back class student? of course NOT! with A's student you can give simple instruction and rely on them to take care the rest. But, back class student u have to do close monitoring and remind them all the way to complete task given,.. Family culture! yeah in my last post,... i know i keep on stressing this! Coz right now i related all things to me in developing my family culture. Everyday is a learning process for me, so to others. What happens around us we should link it with us. How we adopt and take it as a lesson, not only for reading and observation,.. It hard huh!?! NO NO NO if we want to give the best we should not take it easy! (i LOVE to think which i should not, sometimes,..) hohoho knowing youngsters nowaday scared me! Please please please,.. precaution and preservation has to be made for your children,.. I hope  i can give the best for my little family,.. Membentuk akhlak dan budi pekerti anak merupakan tanggungjawab besar,.. membentuk semula habit they used to be pon susah juga,.. but if they willingly to change for their own good, it's the BEST!!! Alhamdulillah i was given an understanding husband who are willingly to adapt my BIG family's culture, and we learned from them,.. we not  yet succeed, at least we've done our part, yes sacrifices needed,.. My darling husband was a GREAT gift ever. Bright side will not just come / fall in sudden! Sometimes it takes time, sama lah macam kita berdoa and minta dari Allah macam2, tapi Allah bagi dalam pelbagai cara and kadang2 Allah bagi cubaan dulu. The most important in life is being blessed, InsyaAllah life will just fine (even there will be up and down).

PS. hari ini bukan untuk esok semata, but hari ini, esok, adalah untuk selamanya,.. everyday meant for improvement and sacrifices~

Dulu lain, sekarang lain...

Dulu mcm tuh, tp skrg mcm ni..
Dulu x wat camtuh pon, tp skrg org wat cmni,..

My thought : Dulu n skrg mmg bnyk beza tp spatutnya mentaliti manusia haruslah seiring dgn perubahan tnpa mengabaikan batas2 yg sepatutnya especially as a muslim,.. Setiap org pasti melakukan kesilapan dlm kehidupan,.. tp sepatutnya kesilapan tuh perlu diinsafi n bertaubat memohon keampunan agar kehidupan mendatang lebih mendatangkan berkat,.. I did mistakes,.. Alhamdulillah Allah showed His forgiveness with granted me my Laling,.. it does shows me He is giving an opportunity for me to build a better n blessing life,.. Alhamdulillah,.. Perjalanan percintaan yg terjaga sebelum berkahwin adalah lebih diredhai n insyaAllah He will grant u better life after marriage,.. I experienced it and i did feel soooooo blessed n the feeling was sooooo undiscribeable... I agree skrg nih klu org kate bercinte tuh bute tp klu kite sentiase muhasabah akan diri kita n jaga iman insyaAllah,.. Mmg syaitan tuh slalu ade utk mensasarkan kite, tp bile kite pikir plak mak bapak kite mungkin kite x buat perkara2 terlarang,.. yelah, jika blom berkahwin pastinya kite masih menggalas name ibu bapa klu p mane2 skali pon (nih klu xigt penciptanya sms bercinta),.. org akan bertanya (o even dlm hati) mak bapak die x kesah ke derang ni dok terkepit2 tergedik2 sblum kahwin? klu kt tpt2 peranginan plak o tpt percutian pulak, jika terlihat pasangan2 berkaseh yg blom berkahwin pastinya ade yg tertnya (o even dlm hati) mak bapak die tahu ke derang p sini? klu jd ape2 nnt dlm perjalanan o dlm percutian bersama? ntah lah, segalanya mungkin terjadi,.. tp slalunye org akan abaikan segala kemungkinan yg berlaku klu derang rase indah sgt bercinta,.. tp klu kita slalu berigt akan tanggungjawab kita as anak n as a muslim pastinya segalanya dpt diatasi n dielakkan,.. Sentiasa muhasabah n insafi kesilapan n xwat lagi perkara2 tersebut pastinya kehidupan mendatang akan lebih bermakna,.. kdg2 setiap percintaan begitu x de akhiran yg baik,... tp jika akhiran yg baik alhamdulillah, masih ade lg ruang yg diberikan utk kite perbaiki agar kehidupan mendatang lebih diberkati,.. Tiada gune pon hidup mewah2 tnpa mendapat keberkatan sbb bile hidup nih x berkat pasti ade saja yg x mencukupi dlm kehidupan itu,.. Syukuri n nikmatilah kehidupan yg telah diberikan oleh-Nya sentiasa,.. xmungkin kite terlepas dr tak mengingati-Nya,..